The Line Behind You

The Drew and Cole Deddens Foundation, through iStorm Group, participated in the Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky Apartment Association’s “Night Out for Outreach” event September 16. This event provided us with 2 stark reminders: how lucky we are, and how much others need our help.

Or as one of the event’s coordinators, Bruce Hellman of BRG Realty Group, said, “The line behind you is much longer than the line in front of you.”

It is easy to get caught up in our every day issues, or feel like we are having a really bad day, when in reality, our individual problems are trivial compared to others’. Outreach aims to ease that burden for people who are truly in need.

Outreach’s mission statement is, “To provide basic needs and emergency assistance to families and individuals in crisis,” and the vision statement is “To strengthen and elevate all communities by providing food, shelter and other basic needs.”

Outreach supports several programs including:

  • Rent assistance
  • Backpack giveaways
  • Food distribution program
  • Scholarships
  • Senior events

The rent assistance program grants up to $500 in rent assistance, on a one-time basis, to “bridge over a rough spot in a resident’s life and to prevent losing a resident due to an emergency”. This program’s annual budget is $41,000.

The backpack giveaway supports over 1100 school children, providing much needed supplies and a budget of over $17,000.

As Outreach’s web site says, “Hunger knows no season, never takes a vacation nor is satisfied by good thoughts.” Outreach does its part by delivering cases of food to 2 dozen pantries in the GCNK area, at a budget of $15,000.

Each year, Outreach sponsors scholarships totaling $10,000, while also providing meals and entertainment so residents of low-income senior housing.

According to the web site CityLink Center, “30.9% of Cincinnatians live in poverty – that’s more than 86,000 individuals.” Think about that – 1 in 3 people in the GCNK area live in poverty.

For them, they may very well feel the line in front of them is longer than the line behind them.

Programs like Outreach aim to change that dynamic. Obviously, it is a drop in the bucket, but we are proud to have played some small role in filling it.

In Memory of John “Jack” Deddens

On May 1, 2017, John “Jack” Deddens passed away. Jack is the grandfather of Drew and Cole Deddens and would have loved the fact that people will contribute to the Drew and Cole Deddens Foundation in his memory. Jack believed all life is precious, especially that of the born and unborn child.

Please help us help children, particularly those with illnesses, and give in memory of Jack by clicking here.

Jack’s obituary

Deddens, John “Jack” F., Age 90 passed away on Monday, May 1.   He was born on August 7, 1926 in Louisville, Kentucky. He was preceded in death by his wife Eileen. She was the love of his life and they were married for 57 years.   Also, preceding him in death were his parents, Carl and Jane Deddens, In-Laws Rudy and Gladys Clark, Sister-In-Law, Darlyne Clark, Twin Grandchildren, Drew and Cole Deddens and one Great Grandchild, Taylor Deddens.

He is survived by his five children. Carl and Margaret Deddens of Maplewood, New Jersey, Bill and Lisa Deddens of Jupiter, Florida, Karen ( AKA: Kuna-Bell) and Kevin Crotty of Springboro, Ohio, Michael and Angel Deddens of Athens, Ohio and Mark and Tammy Deddens of Centerville, Ohio. Jack was blessed with 21 Grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren (with one on the way)! Brother James Deddens and Sister Joyce Deddens who both reside in Virginia. Sister-In-Law Carolyn and Henry Kirkwood of Arizona. Numerous nieces and nephews.

A passion for God, country, and family

Jack grew up in Louisville, Kentucky. From there he enlisted in the Army Air Corp and went on to serve in WWII as a navigator on a B25. He was a very proud veteran and several years ago his oldest grandchild, Colin Crotty, took him on the Honor Flight to Washington D.C. It was one of his favorite memories from his later years.

Jack had a passion for his family. He and Eileen did everything together. Spent much of their time with their children and grandchildren. He wrote many short stories for his grandchildren and would often then go to the grandkids school as a featured guest and would read his stories to the classrooms.

He was also very well known for taking the grandkids on Adventures. He would take them around town to landmarks or special places of his that he wanted them to know about and then out to eat at Bob Evans.

Another passion Jack had was archeology. He spent many hours building an extensive collection of American Indian Artifacts. He has donated some of his findings to Boonshoft Museum and Sun Watch Indian Village.

A faithful servant

Jack had a very strong devotion to his Catholic Faith. He was very involved at St. Albert the Great and Right to Life. You always knew his car by his Right to Life Sticker. He has given countless hours to the organization and had a deep hope to one day see this end.

The House of Bread was another place you could often find Jack. He enjoyed helping the less fortunate and help feed the poor.

An impactful man

What an impact Jack had on every life he touched. There isn’t a person that he has met that doesn’t have a great story about him. He was a GREAT Man and will be missed dearly. There will be a short visitation in the back of church before mass.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at noon at St. Albert the Great Catholic Church 3033 Far Hills Ave., Kettering, Ohio 45429 on Monday May 8, 2017.   Interment following at Calvary Cemetery.